The flirty texts back and forth have finally resulted in the big moment: the first date. This is an exciting time, but it can lead to questions and nerves about what to wear. Women want to make a good first impression. Don’t worry. We’re here to allay your concerns with smart, practical advice on what to wear on a first date. A great getting-ready playlist, filled with all of your favorite songs, can help set the vibe as you pick your outfit.
Dress with confidence
The number one rule is to wear clothes you feel comfortable in and that are appropriate for the season and activity. This will help you feel more relaxed and confident, which translates into feeling relaxed and confident about the date. You don’t want to spend the day or evening distracted by an itchy tag or uncomfortable high heels.
Keep it basic
There’s no need to overdo it. Loud jewelry or an overly bright top can distract from your natural beauty and smile. A basic t-shirt and jeans worn with confidence can be a perfect look.
Avoid revealing clothing
Going in the other direction, wearing overly revealing clothing can also be distracting. However, if you feel comfortable showing a little skin in a low-cut blouse or short skirt, go for it. Your date should not judge you for showing some skin. Focus on a physical attribute that you’re really proud of, like your arms, stomach, or legs, and highlight that feature.
Keep the type of date in mind
The time of year, activity, and time of day will help dictate what you need to wear. For example, early fall can be tricky to dress for, but so can early spring. On the day of the date, check the weather before you check your closet. Look at what the temperature will be during the length of the date. If it looks like it might rain, pack an umbrella in your bag so you aren’t accidentally caught in a storm.
Your outfit should also match what type of date it will be. A casual coffee chat is different than a formal dinner. You could even consider asking your date what they plan to wear so that you match their level of casualness or dressiness. Who knows, maybe they are wondering what to wear too! It could be a fun way to break the ice and ease nerves for both of you.
You will have a great time with your date.
